#1 Distracted Much?
1. Electronics In The Bedroom
Electronics may seem as though they’ve enhanced our lives, but in reality they have
caused more of a disconnect with those we love. Bringing our electronics into the bedroom is the number one killer of romance and of our sex lives.
2. Meds
Certain medications can cause a loss of libido. Check with your doctor to see if yours are on that list and if there are any alternative medications or natural remedies that you can take.
3. Body Conscious
As we age we become increasingly conscious of our bodies, especially if we’ve put on a significant amount of weight. Skin losing it’s elasticity also plays a major part in not wanting to be seen without our clothes on.
4. Child Rearing
During the child rearing years, a couple (especially the mother) may be just too exhausted for sex. With spit up, drool, and other baby excrements all over their clothes, not enough time to even brush their hair, women feel less than sexy.
5. Hormonal
Hormones play a major part in our desire for sex. Stress can cause our hormones to go out of whack as can certain life stages such as menopause. Believe it or not, men suffer from their own mid-life crisis too.
#2 Lingering Issues?
6. Viagra
You might think that Viagra would mean more sex, but there is thing called being “Viagra-ized”. Too much can cause major physical and emotional disconnect in a relationship, causing the women to recoil from sex.
7. Vibrators
Some women become so used to their vibrators that they cannot be pleased by their man. Afterall, a man’s penis doesn’t twist and turn or have rabbit ears on it for added stimulation, and with the sizes they come in ... come on.
8. Resentment
Resentment in a relationship is a certain sex killer. Harboring issues without talking them out can cause either partner to withdraw from sex, with the intimacy between the couple dying.
9. Illness
Certain illnesses can cause a loss of libido, even the common cold. If you are overly stressed out it can wreak havoc on your immune system causing you to be sick more often than not. And more serious illnesses make it hard to feel sexy or want to be intimate.
10. Cheating
When one partner is cheating, or even having desires for another person, the sex life between the couple begins to diminish. In fact, this is one of the first signs that your partner is cheating, lack of interest in sex.
